“Together for a better Internet” is the theme of this year’s Safer Internet Day (SID) which has become a landmark event in the global online safety calendar over the past 19 years.
In South Africa, the country’s Internet Service Providers’ Association (ISPA) is joining the call for a worldwide web free of cyberbullying and other pressing online issues that so often impact society’s most vulnerable.
ISPA is a non-profit company and recognised Internet industry representative body with about 205 Internet Service Provider (ISP) members.
The Film and Publication Board (FPB) is the South African SID Committee member that leads SID activities in South Africa.
Today, SID is celebrated in over 200 countries worldwide.
“As the primary learning tool for growing numbers of young people around the globe, the Internet simply has to become safer,” says André van der Walt, ISPA’s chairperson. “ISPA calls on South African parents, teachers, the media and others with the means to spread the online safety message to get involved on 8 February and for the rest of the year.”
Alan Levin, chairman of the Internet Society – South Africa (ISOC – ZA) and member of the Internet Service Providers’ Association of SA (ISPA) PR and marketing working group, offers some advice for parents:
Parental controls can support parents in their efforts to keep your kids’ Internet experiences safe, fun, and productive. More than nine in 10 parents who use parental control software consider it useful.
However, they can only work when used openly and honestly in partnership with children – not as a stealth spying method.
Parents should understand that parental controls may be helpful, but they are not 100% effective. So it is also very important to talk to children about using the Internet safely.
Setting parental controls through the ISP can be the easiest way to manage what your children can access across all devices and computers in the home. While this can be done easily by most ISPs, parents should be aware that any controls set in this way would then apply to anyone using the home network.
Controls can also be applied to a smartphone that a child uses outside the home. Again, the ISP could apply controls from the user’s router, on their backbone infrastructure, or may distribute software that parent can manage and install on their own.
need to manage and install on your own.
Figuring out what kind of parental control is best is entirely based on your own family’s needs. Some families can get by with simple, free browser settings to filter inappropriate content. Some families need help clamping down on screen time.
- Block websites. If you just want to limit what your kids can search for, your best option is to enable Google SafeSearch in whichever browser or browsers you use. First, you need to make sure your browsers use Google as their default search engine, and then you need to turn on SafeSearch.
- Block websites and filter content. If you want to prevent access to specific websites and limit your kid’s exposure to inappropriate content such as mature games or porn, you can use the parental controls that are built into your device’s operating system. Every major operating system — Microsoft’s Windows, Apple’s Mac OS, and even Amazon’s Fire — offers settings to keep kids from accessing stuff you don’t want them to see.
- Block websites, filter content, impose time limits, see what my kids are doing. A full-featured, third-party parental control service such as Bark, Qustodio or NetNanny will give you a lot of control over all of your kid’s devices (the ones they use at home as well as their phones). These can be pricey (especially if you have several kids to monitor), but the cost includes constant device monitoring, offering you visibility into how kids are using their devices.
- Monitor my kid’s phone. To keep tabs on your tween or teen’s phone, your best bet is to download an app to monitor text messages, social networks, emails, and other mobile functions — try Bark, ScreenTime, Circle, TeenSafe, or WebWatcher. These are especially helpful if you’re concerned about potentially risky conversations or iffy topics your kid might be engaging in. For Android, Google’s Family Link is the most integrated approach.
- Track my kid’s location. You can use GPS trackers such as Google Maps, Find My Friends and FamiSafe to stay abreast of your kid’s whereabouts.
- Manage all devices on the network, limit screen time, filter content, turn off Wi-Fi. There are both hardware and software solutions to control your home network and your home Wi-Fi. To name a few popular ones: OpenDNS is a download that works with your existing router (the device that brings the internet into your home) to filter internet content. Circle Home Plus is a device and subscription service that pairs with your existing router and lets you pause access to the internet, create time limits, and add content filters to all devices on your home network (including Wi-Fi devices), plus manage phones and tablets outside the home. Visit https://cleanbrowsing.org/filters/ for another excellent option that offers a free tier.